What's Stopping You? 5 Keys to Overcoming

 

What’s stopping you?” For many of us, just starting is the hardest part. For others, completing a project seems impossible. For me personally, time seems to be one of my greatest challenges. There are so many things I want to do, but only 24 hours every day to go after it. Since we are given an unknown number of days in our lifetime, what are you doing right now to keep yourself healthy, rested, motivated, encouraged and set on fire?  

★ There are seven days in a week and someday isn’t one of them. ★

★I wish there were more hours in the day and boys were nice and bread didn’t make you fat. ★ 

★ Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out. ★


Overcoming Your Obstacles

  1. Write Your Mission, Values and Vision
  2. Develop Self-Discipline
  3. Be Patient
  4. Be Practical
  5. Be Intentional

Write Your Mission, Values and Vision - if you don't know where you're going, it'll be hard to get there.

Develop Self-Discipline - I once heard it said, "Nothing so conclusively proves a man's ability to lead others as what he does from day to day to lead himself."

Be Patient - Handle yourself with care. You can only do what you can do! Growth takes time. Don't rush the process. But are you being faithful with the gifts and talents you've been given? Are you maximizing your God-given potential?

★ Mountaintops inspire leaders but valleys mature them. ★

Be Practical - Get real with yourself...what's standing in your way? Is it time (*raises hand*), resources, or ability? Or under the surface...is it insecurity, fear or complacency?

Be Intentional - Diligence and consistency is KEY. These are truly some of the greatest things blogging has reinforced in my life!


I believe one of the most courageous things you can do is be yourself. Be brave. Be bold. Be bright. Take risks. Hold onto hope and believe in miracles.

★ You must do the things you think you cannot do. 

★ No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, show up and never give up. ★

On to the sale of the week! Just when I thought the discounts couldn't get much sweeter, my favorite store released a NEW batch of finds!

Starting things off with selections for the stylish guy. Several friends have requested more style tips and shopping picks for men, so I might include the dudes in the fun every now and then! Let me know how you guys like that idea.

Dear Stylish Guy Under [Under $50]

 

One Stop Christmas Shop

Welcome to my one stop Christmas shop! Throughout the holiday season, I’ll be updating this page with my favorite picks and best deals, so frequent my "Holiday Shop" at the top of my menu and refresh for the latest. See my most recent holiday shopping posts: Perfect Plaid + Personal Purchases, Suede Shopping Guide and Black Friday Deals! Many of the Black Friday items I chose are still on sale.

Shop the post:

Velvet kimono: Anthropologie | Denim: Blank NYC | Watch: Daniel Wellington (15% off with code SHEPPARD) | Necklace: Rocksbox (1 month of free designer jewelry at Rocksbox.com when you sign up with code JESSICASHEPPARDXOXO (see more info on how Rocksbox works here) | Lip Color: NARS Heat Wave

 

Gifts Under $50

For the whimsical girl in your life, I love the idea of gifting this flower/pearl hair clip with this clutch! If she has that dreamer flair, add this rose gold cuff bracelet.

I wouldn't want to put us in a box, but every girl I know loves this candle. If you're not sure what to buy for someone, this is SAFE ZONE!

Bite Beauty is one of my favorite brands for lipsticks...this little gift set has super fun color options. Great stocking stuffer!

I have these earrings and I LOVE them! Always get compliments. They match every color, because they have that iridescent shine to them. Awesome sale price too!

This scarf looks too soft for words and it matches this velvet backpack...how convenient.

This pom pom key chain is my favorite color combo. Try showing it off on this studded tote!

Gifts For Her

If you're looking to splurge, I LOVE this floor mirror, Rose gold smartwatch, cute Fitbit. Threw in a few purse options too, like this Rebecca Minkoff hobo, satchel and crossbody...all of which are on sale.

Gifts For Mom

I love buying sentimental, special gifts for Mom, but sometimes the best present is straight up PRACTICAL. One of the best purchases I've ever made for her is this steamer! She uses it almost daily (and I do too :).

Another practical idea is a makeup mirror...10x magnification scares me, but Mom can't get enough.

If your mom is trendy like mine, she would love this velvet bomber, paired with Kendra Scott earrings or maybe this statement necklace!

These art pieces make for really neat gifts...picked this one and a little home blessing! I just had a custom piece ordered from her shop. I absolutely adore her work!

Gifts For Him

This Tumi gear is amazing for your guy on-the-go! This tote, hanging travel kit, and travel kit will polish up his travel style. If he's looking for the perfect briefcase, check out this one!

I'm thinking about buying this case for my dad...it holds tech accessories and cables! He loves little pockets and pouches like this.

Bluetooth speaker...always a good idea.

As for accessories, this cashmere scarf looks amaze. Daniel Wellington is a winner for watches (just remember to use my code SHEPPARD for 15% off!). And if he's really active, he'd love this Fitbit.

For the Home

This lamp is at the top of my faves from my home picks! Would look so cute with these frames in the background.

I included another art piece, because I just can't get enough..."home is whenever I'm with you!" 

For the Traveler

I never leave town without this travel steamer or this suitcase scale...no more unloading your overweight bag in the middle of the terminal (not like that's happened to me before or anything).

Packing cubes to help me fit more clothes (hehe).

I also like traveling with a USB diffuser. I especially like diffusing lavender and thieves when I arrive at an unfamiliar hotel (especially if it has any musty or not-so-five-star vibes).

For the Girl Boss

Beauty Picks

My favorite hand lotion, perfume (holiday gift set here), and dry shampoo. Do you really need anything else?

Pajama Picks

Much love and happy shopping!

Jess

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Black Friday Deals!

 

Hello friends! Hope everyone had a fabulous Thanksgiving! I've been counting my blessings, which includes YOU--and these two pictured above 🐶🐶. (Wearing my mint green smock ((also featured here)) and velveteen leggings.) In all sincerity, I feel so grateful for you...I even included a gushy moment in my video below. Just can't get enough of those thankful feels!

Now that Thanksgiving has come and gone, Black Friday is HERE and holiday shopping is officially ON. I’ve gotcha covered with the best deals for your Christmas list! Throughout the season, I’ll be updating my “Holiday Shop” on the top menu with my favorite picks and latest sales, so be sure to stop by on the regular.

(note to self: better thumbnails)

To get things started, I browsed a few of my favorite stores offering AMAZING Black Friday sales and included promo codes when applicable. Get to it before sizes are picked over!


ASOS - 30% off everything

Code: THANKFUL30


Daniel Wellington - 15% off + complimentary strap when purchasing a watch

Code: SHEPPARD


Anthropologie - 30% with code LETSGO


GAP - 50% off everything

Free shipping on orders $50+

Code: TGIF50


Nordstrom - Up to 40% off


Shopbop - Spend $200+, get 15% Off; Spend $500+, get 20% Off; Spend $800, get %25 Off

Free 3-day shipping and free returns

Code: GOBIG16


Lord & Taylor - Extra 50% off with code THANKS


REVOLVE - Up to 65% off select items


More Sales To Mention:

Amazon Black Friday Deals

Bloomingdale’s - 15% Off $100-$199.99 or 20% off $200+ // Up to 50% on select items // Free shipping

J.Crew - 40% off everything // Code: HOLIDAY

Neiman Marcus Last Call - Up to 40-80% off everything

Neiman Marcus - Up to 40% off designer // Up to 60% off sale items // $50 Off $200 // Free Shipping // Free Returns // Code THANKFUL

Saks Fifth Avenue - Up to $150 off women's denim (Code: DENIM2016) // Up to $200 off purchase of $300-$800 (Code: SVEAFF)

Topshop - Up to 50% off

Much love and happy shopping!

Jess